This year’s Christmas was a completely new experience. For the first time since I’ve met my wife, we haven’t had family close enough to spend time with on Christmas day. We’ve always either hosted or been to family for Christmas lunch. This would break the day into opening presents, the hectic dash and then the exhausted wind down of the day with the realization that Christmas has been all about rushing, stressing and being crazy-busy all day.
This was the first year we didn’t have family to visit or hosting family for Christmas lunch. The family we had in Belgium moved back to South Africa, their son who still lives in Belgium had gone to them for Christmas and there was no visiting family in our little apartment.
This year we would be…
alone!
Christmas this year was a quiet, intimate affair and it’s been the best Christmas I’ve had in years! Christmas lunch was a quick but luxurious eating experience with my amazing wife and daughter. We had eisbein with mashed potato, sauerkraut and ratatouille vegetables accompanied with red wine and cherry cola for my daughter. She loved the eisbein, the sauerkraut…not so much.
We don’t have Thanksgiving or any holiday like it before Christmas in South Africa or Belgium. For me it’s always been rolled into one. I’ve always been thankful for the gifts under the Christmas tree but also more than that – the things I can’t take pictures of. For me, Christmas is a time to reflect and be grateful for the things and privileges I have.
So, first the things I’m grateful for that can’t be expressed in a single photo:
The privilege of living in Belgium.
The feeling of safety for my little family, knowing that when I come home from work that they’ll all be okay.
Safer traffic conditions than I was previously used to.
The ability and right to be able to change employer without the hindrance of law that discriminates against me because of the colour of my skin.
Public transport that works.
A government that looks after the interest of its people and not their own personal interests.
All in all, I’m grateful for our quality of life here in Belgium.
…and what was under the Christmas tree for me?
A chocolate orange with dark chocolate. Yes, Belgians love their dark chocolate.
This is big for me. A really amazing gift and I’ll tell you why. I’m pretty much deaf in my right ear because the mechanisms between the outside world and the nerve parts of my ear don’t work. This means that if the sound were to be able to get to the inner parts of my ear, I could hear with both ears. I’ve never been able to appreciate music in true stereo. My wife, with this gift, has made that possible! I tried it and it works! It’s like a little miracle in a box!
Thank you Mrs. Awesome!
I think Mrs Awesome’s hinting that I should awaken my artistic side again. It’s time I produced some drawn art again. I like that idea.
A mojito kit for summer time.
I love liver pate. Here is the assortment I got under the tree. Perfect for a breakfast slice of toast.
I love gaming. It relaxes me. I can’t wait to really get into these!
And that was everything under the Christmas tree!
I hope you all had a fantastic Christmas with all the good things you wanted and perhaps some good things you were simply granted because you were such a good boy or girl!
Ciao for now.